Hey, you are most welcome to this page.
Let me start straight with the subject, Its about YOU. Yes the one sitting on chair and poking nose into screen to find something worth reading, i do not guarantee to provide you the same, although i will try.
Yes, YOU who is a daughter, a sister, a wife, a friend, a mother, a professional and missing herself somewhere..isn't it.
I'm talking about YOU, free from all identities listed above..
YOU who is the divine creation of Almighty/God/Universe.
YOU,who is just perfect in her way.
YOU, who has the power to brighten up a day of millions with charming smile.
YOU, who is as fresh as a dew on lotus flower.
YOU, who can DREAM.
YOU, who can DESIRE.
YOU, who can achieve her goals.
YOU, who can THINK and have opinion.
YOU, who is soft as rose petals and yet so strong.
YOU, who has the freshness of a bud.
YOU, who is the powerhouse of creation.
YOU, who is THE BEST.
YOU, who can have choice.
YOU, Who can chatter day long and yet can keep silence for hours. That too for no reason ;)
YOU are the princess, You are the queen. Treat yourself like that.
Have you given a thought about YOU? If your answer is YES then I can start away now.
Are you over here to compete with darker sex, No, absolutely not !! Why do YOU want to compete? Both of you are equal and both of you need each other for survival. So what is point in wasting your time and energy in competing with HIM.
Does your happiness resides on a phone call from your beloved? Nope, it should also be other way round. Give him some space...and you be happy !! Remember he too loves you and that's why you are together.
Who has laid a rule in your life that you can't work in particular domain? Think over it again, of course you can do efficiently in any domain, the only restriction is you who thinks that you can't. Hurdles will come one the way, so what...explore the road less traveled, am sure you will find a better way or else make the a one better to travel upon. But live up to your DREAMS and create the reality..
You are a home maker but that does not mean that you need to tolerate everything. You are free to express. What if you are a mother and can't go for a full time job. You can spare some time for your creative work. Live up to your passion. Its possible to spare sometime for it. What is the point in discussing the gossip and arguments on pity things? You are meant for better things.
Laugh as often as you can and cheer up others as well. Many of them need that. Is that a big deal? Not at ALL. Cry even, if you want. It will release you from stress and get back to normalcy.Things which has happened is a passe , why to cling on to it and bring in to the present. You have got the moment and future awaits you, forge in that direction and manifest the miracle. Remember everything under the sun is going to change...situation, people, perception, environment..everything!!!
Why you need to tolerate the norms created by society. Society is in system for happiness of human being. If its rule are abiding with your happiness , then follow it other wise break it and follow your heart. What maximum can happen? Few people will say few words and will get tuned to the routine again.Does that matter?? Naa..absolutely not!!!
Just go out and explore the world with your eyes. There is plenty of it. The age barrier is your own creation. Do not leave your happiness quotient for tomorrow. Its starts from today, right here right now !
You have the magic wand in your hand. Create the magic and see.
Just a word of advice. Whatever you choose to pursue in life, just keep a BALANCE.
Nature loves Symmetry and Balance.
Love you and be blessed always !
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
Monday, May 10, 2010
Alphabet of Happiness
Found one email with following content, thought its worth sharing with you.
A--Accept
Accept others for who they are and for the choices they've made even if you have difficulty understanding their beliefs, motives, or actions.
B--Break Away
Break away from everything that stands in the way of what you hope to accomplish with your life.
C--Create
Create a family of friends whom you can share your hopes, dreams, sorrows, and happiness with.
D--Decide
Decide that you'll be successful and happy come what may, and good things will find you. The roadblocks are only minor obstacles along the way.
E--Explore
Explore and experiment. The world has much to offer, and you have much to give. And every time you try something new, you'll learn more about yourself.
F--Forgive
Forgive and forget. Grudges only weigh you down and inspire unhappiness and grief. Soar above it, and remember that everyone makes mistakes.
G--Grow
Leave the childhood monsters behind. They can no longer hurt you or stand in your way.
H--Hope
Hope for the best and never forget that anything is possible as long as you remain dedicated to the task.
I--Ignore
Ignore the negative voice inside your head. Focus instead on your goals and remember your accomplishments. Your past success is only a small inkling of what the future holds.
J--Journey
Journey to new worlds, new possibilities, by remaining open-minded. Try to learn something new every day, and you'll grow.
K--Know
Know that no matter how bad things seem, they'll always get better. The warmth of spring always follows the harshest winter.
L--Love
Let love fill your heart instead of hate. When hate is in your heart, there's room for nothing else, but when love is in your heart, there's room for endless happiness.
M--Manage
Manage your time and your expenses wisely, and you'll suffer less stress and worry. Then you'll be able to focus on the important things in life.
N--Notice
Never ignore the poor, infirm, helpless, weak, or suffering. Offer your assistance when possible, and always your kindness and understanding.
O--Open
Open your eyes and take in all the beauty around you. Even during the worst of times, there's still much to be thankful for.
P--Play
Never forget to have fun along the way. Success means nothing without happiness.
Q--Question
Ask many questions, because you're here to learn.
R--Relax
Refuse to let worry and stress rule your life, and remember that things always have a way of working out in the end.
S--Share
Share your talent, skills, knowledge, and time with others. Everything that you invest in others will return to you many times over.
T--Try
Even when your dreams seem impossible to reach, try anyway. You'll be amazed by what you can accomplish.
U--Use
Use your gifts to your best ability. Talent that's wasted has no value. Talent that's used will bring unexpected rewards.
V--Value
Value the friends and family members who've supported and encouraged you, and be there for them as well.
W--Work
Work hard every day to be the best person you can be, but never feel guilty if you fall short of your goals. Every sunrise offers a second chance.
X--X-Ray
Look deep inside the hearts of those around you and you'll see the goodness and beauty within.
Y--Yield
Yield to commitment. If you stay on track and remain dedicated, you'll find success at the end of the road.
Z--Zoom
Zoom to a happy place when bad memories or sorrow rears its ugly head. Let nothing interfere with your goals. Instead, focus on your abilities, your dreams, and a brighter tomorrow.
A--Accept
Accept others for who they are and for the choices they've made even if you have difficulty understanding their beliefs, motives, or actions.
B--Break Away
Break away from everything that stands in the way of what you hope to accomplish with your life.
C--Create
Create a family of friends whom you can share your hopes, dreams, sorrows, and happiness with.
D--Decide
Decide that you'll be successful and happy come what may, and good things will find you. The roadblocks are only minor obstacles along the way.
E--Explore
Explore and experiment. The world has much to offer, and you have much to give. And every time you try something new, you'll learn more about yourself.
F--Forgive
Forgive and forget. Grudges only weigh you down and inspire unhappiness and grief. Soar above it, and remember that everyone makes mistakes.
G--Grow
Leave the childhood monsters behind. They can no longer hurt you or stand in your way.
H--Hope
Hope for the best and never forget that anything is possible as long as you remain dedicated to the task.
I--Ignore
Ignore the negative voice inside your head. Focus instead on your goals and remember your accomplishments. Your past success is only a small inkling of what the future holds.
J--Journey
Journey to new worlds, new possibilities, by remaining open-minded. Try to learn something new every day, and you'll grow.
K--Know
Know that no matter how bad things seem, they'll always get better. The warmth of spring always follows the harshest winter.
L--Love
Let love fill your heart instead of hate. When hate is in your heart, there's room for nothing else, but when love is in your heart, there's room for endless happiness.
M--Manage
Manage your time and your expenses wisely, and you'll suffer less stress and worry. Then you'll be able to focus on the important things in life.
N--Notice
Never ignore the poor, infirm, helpless, weak, or suffering. Offer your assistance when possible, and always your kindness and understanding.
O--Open
Open your eyes and take in all the beauty around you. Even during the worst of times, there's still much to be thankful for.
P--Play
Never forget to have fun along the way. Success means nothing without happiness.
Q--Question
Ask many questions, because you're here to learn.
R--Relax
Refuse to let worry and stress rule your life, and remember that things always have a way of working out in the end.
S--Share
Share your talent, skills, knowledge, and time with others. Everything that you invest in others will return to you many times over.
T--Try
Even when your dreams seem impossible to reach, try anyway. You'll be amazed by what you can accomplish.
U--Use
Use your gifts to your best ability. Talent that's wasted has no value. Talent that's used will bring unexpected rewards.
V--Value
Value the friends and family members who've supported and encouraged you, and be there for them as well.
W--Work
Work hard every day to be the best person you can be, but never feel guilty if you fall short of your goals. Every sunrise offers a second chance.
X--X-Ray
Look deep inside the hearts of those around you and you'll see the goodness and beauty within.
Y--Yield
Yield to commitment. If you stay on track and remain dedicated, you'll find success at the end of the road.
Z--Zoom
Zoom to a happy place when bad memories or sorrow rears its ugly head. Let nothing interfere with your goals. Instead, focus on your abilities, your dreams, and a brighter tomorrow.
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
Confidence
I would like to start a discussion on what is meant by confidence or will power.
This is not my analysis , I have read this and am trying to share with you about my understanding on the topic by citing some examples. A note to the reader that please read example with your gender. I am going to use only 'He' , of course you can substitute it with 'She'.
We have heard so people saying for others "He is very confident guy", "He has got guts", "He can do anything", "He will manage", "He is very bold", "Its hard to control him", "He is power house", "What a attitude man", "He can meet the figures", "He will complete the project on time", "He is go getter","He is successful" and the list goes on..
Point to ponder over here is what is that which makes them 'Oh so confident ? Why everyone is not confident. Yes confident at situation's and life condition.
Is confidence is somewhere related with will power or the two are different characteristics and what is the role of imagination and belief in it?
Well, I think confidence comes from within , you can't teach anyone to be confident, of course you can inspire one.
Confidence is inbuilt quality subjected to the situation. A very confident person in business life might not very confident in terms of social life , a very confident boy in sports is not very confident in academics..then why some are confident and some are not, its situational.
I think that it is because when someone does something or is involved into something which he likes or desires is confident.
Now the question comes, how come a person realize that this is exactly he likes or desires.
Is it a divine call or is it from looking at others or call from with in ?
Whatever it may be , but it should be from inner YOU, with in YOU. It is not biased by outer world. Yes you can be inspired by external environment but its the inner YOU who is responsible for the confidence.
As i mentioned before that confidence is inspired by imagination and imagination is a belief or more precisely a THOUGHT.
This where comes your THOUGHT PROCESS or what YOU THINK.
Many people fails over here who comes into category of not so confident. It is because they can't think of being confident at particular situation and it is due to the belief which are built upon over the year's in their life by looking into surrounding environment where they have been brought up , involved with and what most of them say "I have seen this", "It happens like that" , " If I will do this then that will happen" , and so on.... "It happened with him, situation is same, it will happen with me as well"....All sought of varied thoughts on speculation.
Apparently, they prove it right as well , because this is what they think, all the time and those who break this glass ceiling of belief comes out to be spectacular confident human being.
All this complexity and doubt is your own creation and your own belief !!!! Change this programming. This is called as negative belief and what comes out after reprogramming will very be wonderful. Think about it. Your new avatar.
Let us take an example, there were two fellows who wanted to reach airport on time to catch up a flight scheduled at 8.55 PM and till 8.20 PM they are on road. One was fearful or confident negatively that he will loose the flight and other was confident that he will catch the flight. Just imagine who would have won??
Yes the confident one about catching the flight, because he has already imagined that he will catch the flight and discarded all the negative belief system which came in between in attaining his desire. So here comes the imagination which has surpassed the will of other who was negatively confident about loosing it.
Let us take another example, Again two fellows both of them were studying together in degree college ,aiming for fantastic career in business world and passing out with same grade. During the course of time, one became a good business development manager in a giant organization in a small span of time and other is still a researcher and aiming to settle down in life. By citing this, am not criticizing a researcher.
For relationship example, I have already quoted a post title "love".
Let us take example on health with some of our bollywood celebrities viz Anurag Basu, Liza Ray both of them have recovered from illness. This is all because of thinking in line with confidence to live.
You can look around in your life for other examples, there are so many, I have cited just a few.
To conclude, Just be confident about your desire to achieve something in your life ,devote all your THOUGHTS in getting it by aligning your belief and taking actions.
Over to you guys for comments.
This is not my analysis , I have read this and am trying to share with you about my understanding on the topic by citing some examples. A note to the reader that please read example with your gender. I am going to use only 'He' , of course you can substitute it with 'She'.
We have heard so people saying for others "He is very confident guy", "He has got guts", "He can do anything", "He will manage", "He is very bold", "Its hard to control him", "He is power house", "What a attitude man", "He can meet the figures", "He will complete the project on time", "He is go getter","He is successful" and the list goes on..
Point to ponder over here is what is that which makes them 'Oh so confident ? Why everyone is not confident. Yes confident at situation's and life condition.
Is confidence is somewhere related with will power or the two are different characteristics and what is the role of imagination and belief in it?
Well, I think confidence comes from within , you can't teach anyone to be confident, of course you can inspire one.
Confidence is inbuilt quality subjected to the situation. A very confident person in business life might not very confident in terms of social life , a very confident boy in sports is not very confident in academics..then why some are confident and some are not, its situational.
I think that it is because when someone does something or is involved into something which he likes or desires is confident.
Now the question comes, how come a person realize that this is exactly he likes or desires.
Is it a divine call or is it from looking at others or call from with in ?
Whatever it may be , but it should be from inner YOU, with in YOU. It is not biased by outer world. Yes you can be inspired by external environment but its the inner YOU who is responsible for the confidence.
As i mentioned before that confidence is inspired by imagination and imagination is a belief or more precisely a THOUGHT.
This where comes your THOUGHT PROCESS or what YOU THINK.
Many people fails over here who comes into category of not so confident. It is because they can't think of being confident at particular situation and it is due to the belief which are built upon over the year's in their life by looking into surrounding environment where they have been brought up , involved with and what most of them say "I have seen this", "It happens like that" , " If I will do this then that will happen" , and so on.... "It happened with him, situation is same, it will happen with me as well"....All sought of varied thoughts on speculation.
Apparently, they prove it right as well , because this is what they think, all the time and those who break this glass ceiling of belief comes out to be spectacular confident human being.
All this complexity and doubt is your own creation and your own belief !!!! Change this programming. This is called as negative belief and what comes out after reprogramming will very be wonderful. Think about it. Your new avatar.
Let us take an example, there were two fellows who wanted to reach airport on time to catch up a flight scheduled at 8.55 PM and till 8.20 PM they are on road. One was fearful or confident negatively that he will loose the flight and other was confident that he will catch the flight. Just imagine who would have won??
Yes the confident one about catching the flight, because he has already imagined that he will catch the flight and discarded all the negative belief system which came in between in attaining his desire. So here comes the imagination which has surpassed the will of other who was negatively confident about loosing it.
Let us take another example, Again two fellows both of them were studying together in degree college ,aiming for fantastic career in business world and passing out with same grade. During the course of time, one became a good business development manager in a giant organization in a small span of time and other is still a researcher and aiming to settle down in life. By citing this, am not criticizing a researcher.
For relationship example, I have already quoted a post title "love".
Let us take example on health with some of our bollywood celebrities viz Anurag Basu, Liza Ray both of them have recovered from illness. This is all because of thinking in line with confidence to live.
You can look around in your life for other examples, there are so many, I have cited just a few.
To conclude, Just be confident about your desire to achieve something in your life ,devote all your THOUGHTS in getting it by aligning your belief and taking actions.
Over to you guys for comments.
Monday, May 3, 2010
Love
I would like to share a story with the reader.
It is the story of a girl Rakhi who got married to Rajeev like a typical arrange marriage with blessing's of both the families. Rajeev , a young lad with sound family background and earning income for a better living and Rakhi, a pretty girl, well educated and good family background . Everything was all well between newly wed couple.Started living in a new city , managing things of their own. One day, all of sudden Rajeev behaved quite unexpectedly with Rakhi, which she found quite unusual and there was no reason for such behavior which comprises anger. Rakhi thought, it just the stress nothing else and tuned herself to the routine life. After few days, things started again into the same fashion and it became a regular saga of verbal abuse and endless fights that too for no apparent reason.
Rakhi was clueless about the situation as what went wrong in between. Latter on she came to know that Rajiv has mental disease where he looses his temper and behave in erratic manner. It was a real shock to happy life. Rakhi felt hurt and helpless. Rajiv subsequently lost the job as well. Rakhi took courage to find a job and started a living hoping to build a better future but destiny has written something else for her. Things became worst and people started raising their concern in the society. Rakhi, will go to her job and Rajeev will sleep all day long or he will come out of home and fight with neighbor's.
Like a typical society resident, suggestion and free advices came from every corner...
Rakhi , leave your husband....
Get married with some one else....
He is a mad guy,his parents have told a lie to your parents....
Move on in life....
Rakhi, never discussed the situation with her parents but one fine day, they came to know about it and came to her home to take her away along with them. They can't see their daughter dying every day, no parent would like that either.
Rajeev was left at his home with his parents for treatment. After sometime, Rajeev started calling Rakhi's name more often unconsciously and his family member's asked him to forget her...The lady whom he loved ardently deep with in....His love ..His wife... Rajeev was helpless and was not able to do anything. Rakhi came to know everything and went against her parents to be with the man of her life.
This was a call for Rakhi to take and she followed her heart to be with the person who loves her a lot even more than himself. Rakhi asked her parents to let her be with Rajeev. Parents placed a condition to break tie with them if she wants to be with Rajeev. But Rakhi has decided something else and moved on with her decision.Rakhi took him along with her to the new city and started earning for living and Rajeev's treatment. It led their bond grew even stronger...
After few year's Rajeev showed some signs of improvement and started working again. It was a true success for Rakhi in terms of her dedication. But things were still not good. Rakhi said, it will improve. Rakhi even left her desire to become mother and their life is moving on hope, faith and love.
Point to discuss over here is this that relationship's are not built because of your sibling's,parent's and friends.A successful relationship does not requires anybody's approval, acceptance, or, for that matter criticism. People will criticize you but what matter's for you is the love you hold for other person and its expression.May be your expression do not have a word or sight but the feeling and emotion itself is sufficient enough. It will definitely conquer everything. One can love many people and for some loving one is a life long affair and I feel thats the true spirit of your life.
Rakhi's dedication and come what may attitude in her relationship is the living example of it.
Today Rakhi is living with Rajeev, who is still recovering from illness and people do question about their intimacy. But its Rakhi and Rajeev who gives them a valid proof of successful living.
It is the story of a girl Rakhi who got married to Rajeev like a typical arrange marriage with blessing's of both the families. Rajeev , a young lad with sound family background and earning income for a better living and Rakhi, a pretty girl, well educated and good family background . Everything was all well between newly wed couple.Started living in a new city , managing things of their own. One day, all of sudden Rajeev behaved quite unexpectedly with Rakhi, which she found quite unusual and there was no reason for such behavior which comprises anger. Rakhi thought, it just the stress nothing else and tuned herself to the routine life. After few days, things started again into the same fashion and it became a regular saga of verbal abuse and endless fights that too for no apparent reason.
Rakhi was clueless about the situation as what went wrong in between. Latter on she came to know that Rajiv has mental disease where he looses his temper and behave in erratic manner. It was a real shock to happy life. Rakhi felt hurt and helpless. Rajiv subsequently lost the job as well. Rakhi took courage to find a job and started a living hoping to build a better future but destiny has written something else for her. Things became worst and people started raising their concern in the society. Rakhi, will go to her job and Rajeev will sleep all day long or he will come out of home and fight with neighbor's.
Like a typical society resident, suggestion and free advices came from every corner...
Rakhi , leave your husband....
Get married with some one else....
He is a mad guy,his parents have told a lie to your parents....
Move on in life....
Rakhi, never discussed the situation with her parents but one fine day, they came to know about it and came to her home to take her away along with them. They can't see their daughter dying every day, no parent would like that either.
Rajeev was left at his home with his parents for treatment. After sometime, Rajeev started calling Rakhi's name more often unconsciously and his family member's asked him to forget her...The lady whom he loved ardently deep with in....His love ..His wife... Rajeev was helpless and was not able to do anything. Rakhi came to know everything and went against her parents to be with the man of her life.
This was a call for Rakhi to take and she followed her heart to be with the person who loves her a lot even more than himself. Rakhi asked her parents to let her be with Rajeev. Parents placed a condition to break tie with them if she wants to be with Rajeev. But Rakhi has decided something else and moved on with her decision.Rakhi took him along with her to the new city and started earning for living and Rajeev's treatment. It led their bond grew even stronger...
After few year's Rajeev showed some signs of improvement and started working again. It was a true success for Rakhi in terms of her dedication. But things were still not good. Rakhi said, it will improve. Rakhi even left her desire to become mother and their life is moving on hope, faith and love.
Point to discuss over here is this that relationship's are not built because of your sibling's,parent's and friends.A successful relationship does not requires anybody's approval, acceptance, or, for that matter criticism. People will criticize you but what matter's for you is the love you hold for other person and its expression.May be your expression do not have a word or sight but the feeling and emotion itself is sufficient enough. It will definitely conquer everything. One can love many people and for some loving one is a life long affair and I feel thats the true spirit of your life.
Rakhi's dedication and come what may attitude in her relationship is the living example of it.
Today Rakhi is living with Rajeev, who is still recovering from illness and people do question about their intimacy. But its Rakhi and Rajeev who gives them a valid proof of successful living.
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)